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When Lovers wait too long to ask for help, the relationship may be beyond repair. The sooner help is sought, the better chance there is of recovering, saving and actually strengthening the relationship. This includes issues dealing with affairs or other types of betrayal.

The longer we wait, the more entrenched we get in destructive patterns and resentment and all hope for change is lost. At a certain point we don’t even want change… we just want to be done.
The seven warning signs that a relationship is in trouble are:
1. Fighting has become the rule rather than the exception to the rule.
2. You find yourself looking outside the relationship for comfort, care, and understanding.
3. You can’t remember what attracted you to your partner in the first place.
4. There is little or no intimacy in your relationship — sleeping in different rooms or different beds, lack of interest, anger, and hostility so that intimacy is out of the question.
5. Spending very little time together, friends seem to be more important than your partner.
6. Reactions to situations are disproportionate to the content of the disagreement (i.e., feeling your partner doesn’t love you because she/he didn’t like the meal you cooked).
7. Feeling helpless and hopeless to change anything. Feeling done with the relationship, but unclear as to where to go and what to do. Feelings of anger, resentment, pain, and desperation are predominant.
If any or all of these describe you in your relationship, your relationship is in trouble and it won’t be long before something more drastic happens, such as an affair, arguments get worse and inflate with intensity, increased jealousy, silence for longer periods of time, and sometimes even physical and/or verbal abuse.
Before your relationship reaches that critical crisis point, look at the warning signs and do something before it’s too late:
  1. Seek psychotherapy
  2. Read books
  3. Talk to a spiritual/religious advisor
Without help, the relationship will never get better with time; once a certain level of resentment, anger, and hostility hits, it will simply get worse and worse.  Avoiding a total crisis and saving the relationship is done by knowing when you’re in trouble and taking immediate action.

Do you want to know how to get a girl to like you?  You are not the only one wondering about that.  Majority of men around the world are wondering how to capture the heart of the girl of their dreams the same as you.  Exactly what is that that makes one of the most baffling of God’s creatures tick anyway?  Here’s how to get a girl to like you:

Be yourself.
To get people to like you, you only need to be yourself.  Fakeness is something no one enjoys.  Not being who you really are is like sending out a warning signal.  Honesty and integrity is a barometer of trustworthiness. If a girl can’t trust you to be yourself, why would she entrust you with her life?

Immerse yourself.
If you’ve always felt awkward when dealing with the fairer sex, do not fret. It may take some getting used to; but as with any brave exploit, practice makes perfect. Start with the basics.

Observe your own family. Take note of the interactions between family members of opposite sexes.  If you’re very lucky to have been raised in a family made up mostly of women, then you’d at least have a working knowledge of how to act around girls.  But if you’ve only ever interacted with male creatures your entire life, you’ll probably need to adjust to females more.

Try to interact with women more and try to be familiar with their ways.  It won’t help to keep them at arm’s length just because you find them intimidating.  Girls aren’t immune to bouts of low self-esteem, too.  If you’re afraid to approach a girl, remind yourself that girls are stumped about how to get guys to like them as well.

Be nice.
“Nice” and “pleasant” mean two different things.  Sure, you could be quite enjoyable to be around with, but do you actually go out of your way to be a decent person?

Help an old lady cross the street.  Be a role model for kids to look up to.  Be kind to animals.  Being considerate to others, no matter the age, gender, or species, is sure to make any girl’s heart melt.

Of course, don’t do it just to show a fake demeanor.  If all you’re after are the brownie points, your efforts will only backfire painfully.


Clean up your act.

Some females may find the bad boy types rather sexy.  That, however, is no excuse for you to avoid taking a bath.  A guy can be the most perfect Adonis, but you can bet the girls will dodge him like a dreaded disease if he stinks like a skunk.

Be a friend.
Yes, platonic relationships between people of the opposite sexes do exist. In some cases, pure friendship relationships can even lead to romantic ones.  But whether or not you’d like to take it that far, keep in mind that girls weren’t put on earth to be chased after then to be captured like prize game.

There is a higher likelihood for her to enjoy your presence if you treat her with respect, listen to her intently, and be her support system when she’s not in her best element.  Leave her with no doubt about your clear motives and don’t let her perceive that you’re only after one thing (and we both know no one’s ignorant what that is).

Just follow these simple steps on how to get a girl to like you and you’ll be able to get the girl of your dreams to like you.

Your female intuition is telling you that your man might be cheating on you, here are some tips to help you find out if he really is!

First how to tell if he’s lying:
Ask him a direct yes/no question.
If he says ‘NO’ and there is a slight nod of the head (rather than a shake from L to R) he’s most likely lying. Similarly if he says ‘YES’ and shakes his head from side to side rather than nodding again lying. These head gestures are more indicative of the truth than the actual words. So look for a nod or a shake rather than a Yes or a No!

What happens when you accuse him of cheating?
Quite often when a man is a cheat and you confront him, his reaction will be completely over the top. He may accuse you or being completely insane and having a dirty mind. The reasonning behind this is to make YOU feel guilty for raising this issue and fearful of doing so again, and of course to make you doubt yourself.
Evidence of cheating
Have you checked his/your joint phone records- are there are long,recurrent calls?

Look at receipts, are there any unusual lunches/dinners he never mentioned to you? Or worse jewellery gift receipts and it’s not your birthday for another 6 months!
When the phone rings, does he take it into the other room, even when there is no noise disturbance where you are?
Is he taking more interest in changing his underwear? Perhaps changing before he goes out and altering his habits regarding his appearance and hygeine. Is he coming home later than usual, does he smell of women’s perfume?
Is the other woman someone you know?
Is your best friend round a lot more lately when he’s home and less when he’s not?
Does your husband insist on giving her a lift home, and the journey takes longer than it should?
What is their body language like when they are together, fleeing glances, slight touches.
How does your friend react when you openly display affection to your husband? Does she look aggravated, does she make an excuse to get you to stop?
Does she seem annoyed with your husband?

These are just a few of the possible ways to tell if your man is cheating but the list goes on and on. Of course him following this pattern is no guarantee he is cheating either.

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