If you first cannot get a woman interested in you enough to want to learn more (curiosity) then you will never have the chance to inspire attraction. With that said, how can you first get a woman to notice you? Is it a mere chance of being her “type”? Hardly. Here is how to get her interested and more important CURIOUS about you.
How to Make a Woman Interested in You – And Keep Her Interested
1. Body Language
Your body language conveys the type of man you are. It shows whether or not you are secure in yourself or not as well as if you are congruent with what you say. Body language is the device which women look at to judge your true value as a man.
What you must do is educate yourself on the type of characteristics you must convey and HOW to portray it using your body language.
2. Pre-selection
An ultra easy way to spark interest in women is “pre-selection”. This is where you arrive to a club (or any other social event) with beautiful women already with you. The other women in the room will see that you have SOMETHING of value to offer because there are other women already by your side.
The women you go out with don’t need to be girlfriends or “friends with benefits”. They can just be normal friends. The key thing to remember is this…the more beautiful they are, the more interest you will generate.
3. Man Up
Live in a reality where you man up. In other words, act like the man you are supposed to be rather than a socially conditioned wimp. Be an alpha man and make decisions for your ENTIRE group. Lead them to a place to sit down and decide which other venues to go to.
Take the leadership role and women will notice this. Remember that sexy women only want the leaders….never the followers.
Learn to Speak the Language of an Alpha Man…
If you want to take your game to the next level, then you must learn how an Alpha Man REALLY communicates. The sad thing is that most men continue to struggle with women even after they learn all those fancy “routines”. What they don’t realize is that women place VERY little value in your words and TONS of value in your nonverbal language.
So you don’t have Julia Roberts’ script writers to provide you with romantic things to say, neither does the rest of the world; but that shouldn’t deter you from pursuing love anyway. Romantic things to say aren’t set in stone, but like every lucid realization, they just come to you from out of the blue, ready to be deployed at the right moment. If not, then there’s always this article for you to read, and hopefully, learn from.
Although these lines are more applicable to men, women may find them useful too.
1. “You look amazing.”
When was the last time you complimented your partner on her looks? A heartfelt comment such as this can be a powerful and instant ego booster, can help her forget a bad day at work, and most of all, can make her feel loved and appreciated. You can never go wrong with a few choice words, but be careful not to overdo it. Nothing ruins a moment like the threat of routine and reducing it to something so commonplace. Plus, you might come off as insincere if that’s all you ever tell her.
2. “Come here.”
If you are in the middle of a fight and you feel that there is still a long way to go before you kiss and make up, asking her to “Come here” and giving her a tight squeeze may just be the starting point of resolving your differences.
3. “I never knew what I did good to deserve you.”
There is no need to consult a dictionary or a big, fat self-help book if you are looking for romantic things to say. What you need to do is look into your heart instead. With this line, you are admitting that you do own up to your shortcomings but you appreciate having her in your life.
4. “Holding you just feels so right.”
Physical intimacy is a big factor in any relationship. By telling her how right you feel whenever you are together, your closeness as a couple will be enhanced.
5. “Meeting you is the best thing that ever happened to me.”
If you feel like you’re running out of romantic things to say, a random sampling of your feelings every now and then is definitely the way to go. This is a common romantic line that will not make her think you got it straight out of a movie – because it is so simple; but if you say it in a heartfelt way, it will definitely melt her heart.
6. “I miss you.”
Absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder and if you have not seen each other for some time, saying, “I miss you” in person or even over the phone is necessary.
7. “Do you even realize how much I love you?”
This line, or a simple “I love you” is still the simplest romantic line that you can ever think of. Why do you think a lot of people make a big deal out of saying it?
It’s not only a matter of knowing what romantic things to say, but knowing how to say them is just as essential. Now that you know, perhaps the most important yet, is to whom you say them.