Relationship Tips

Here is a scene you may be familiar with.  You and your ex are trying to get back together and all seems to be going well.  Then you say or do something that your ex interprets as a criticism, an attack or insult.  Your ex retaliates in words or action. You who meant no harm in the first place, now feel that your ex’s reaction is uncalled for or over the top. Before you know it, defenses go up, and it snowballs from there.

It’s not that you failed to communicate it’s that one person said something but the other heard a completely different thing.  The two of you may think you are talking about the same thing, but really are just using the same word for two different ideas or things.

Certain words or phrases just have away of triggering unpleasant emotions trigger specific emotions and elicit responses that affect the outcome of any contact you have with your ex — email, text, phone or face-to-face. The difference between what one person says and what the other hears is even greater if the break-up was unpleasant.

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Deciding to make or not to make love together is a very personal and important decision in a new relationship. Do what you like, but here is what I know- fools rush in! Many people feel social pressures of “Sex in the City” types of relationships. That’s TV. This is your life! First, you must decide if you are looking for a long-term relationship, or a short-term relationship. That can guide your sexual decisions and actions. In the meantime, here are five love tips for you to review. I hope they will help you.

Love Tip 1: Men don’t respect women who are too sexually available too soon. Women don’t like men who are too pushy.

No matter what your date might say, men are taught to think poorly of women who have sex with them too soon. Women do not like to be pressured, and most men don’t either.

Love Tip 2: Take your time and enjoy the ride!

There are so many fun things you can do- kissing, fooling around with your clothes on, etc. Enjoy the buildup! Dating is a process of getting to know each other. Ask yourself if the chemistry is there, if you enjoy one another’s company, if this is a person that you enjoy on many levels. The more compatible you are, the better the sex is likely to be. After all, anticipation is half the fun!

Love Tip 3: Be safe, be sure and be healthy!

It is important that you and your partner get health tested for STDs first. This protects you and them more. Still use condoms and precautions because you never know. If you feel too embarrassed to talk about STDs or safer sex, then maybe it’s too soon to be naked with the other person sharing the most intimate moments. Muster up the courage to have an open conversation about safer sex and testing. Safe sex gives you peace of mind and body.

Love Tip 4: I would say never have sex on the first date. This is a bad idea because of love tip #1. Ideally, I recommend waiting at least a month or two before having intercourse. Some may not like this or think it’s stupid, but think about it- when you have sex with someone it can be so powerful. Do you want to fall in love with Mr. or Ms. Right or Wrong? You need to consider if you are emotionally ready to take that next step.

Love Tip 5: If all you are looking for is a one night stand, then go for the sex right away. Just be careful and have the safest sex you can. Have fun- there’s no judgment here!

If the person that you are looking for is any good for you, they will respect you enough to wait for you to be ready physically and emotionally. There is an emotional component to sexuality and sensuality that can either bring us so close together in bliss or leave us heartbroken. Since there are no hard and fast rules about sex, you will need to create your own. Stick to them and you will be glad that you did!

Further Reading:

How To Kiss A Woman Romantically 

What is Online Adult Dating?

7 Romantic Things To Say To A Woman

Most women nowadays usually like older men when it comes to dating and the reason is that, they like mature men. Women get mature in lesser age than the men do. That is why they want to have an older man who can match their maturity level.

There is nothing wrong with dating the older men but there are certain points that you should keep in mind while dating older men. If you do not like criticism then you have to make sure that your acquaintances do not come to know about such a relationship. Your family and friends might criticize you for having relationship with such a man but you shouldn’t look for their suggestions. And even if they come to know about it, do listen to them but do what you like, after all it is your own life and you are independent to do what you want. So you should not allow these suggestions and commands to interfere with your personal relationships.

If the older man you are dating  has children, it might be problematic for you. And if his children are of the same age as yours, it will be more problematic. As all of you are adult and mature people, you need to talk together in a good atmosphere in a pleasant and open way, and there should not be any rudeness.

The best thing you can learn about dating older men is how to compromise. If you are able to compromise, then this is probably the best thing for maintaining strong relationship. May be there are many things that you share in common but you have to make certain changes in your lifestyle. You have to compromise on certain things and when you are together, you have to deal with him according to his temperament. It is quiet possible that he doesn’t have energy after the all day hectic routine and tough schedule and may be you feel bore when he takes you somewhere for outing. Now you have to compromise on these things and you can turn to places where you would like to spend the time together and take him that way so that none of you feel bored in each other’s company.

Although women usually feel attracted towards the older men but dating older men can sometimes be very difficult. You must keep in mind these simple tips while dating older men and you will have a great date waiting for you.

Further Reading

10 Tips On Approaching A Woman

How To Know If A Guy Likes You

How To Tell If Your Man is Cheating On You

First Date 101