How Guys Screw Up on First Dates! Here Are Some of the Things Most Guys Often Over Look
There is a category of men who first have a great deal of difficulty in first getting a date and then create such a bad impression on their first date that there are absolutely no chances left for a second date. Here are some of the massive blunders that men make on first dates:
o Look unclean: Men often misinterpret casual looks with looking ungroomed and unclean. There is nothing more turning off than a guy who looks like he showers only when the full moon appears and changes his clothes once a year.
Being sloppy indicates that you don’t care about what the person thinks of you and that’s a negative start. There cannot be anything more offensive than a man who stinks!
o Guy talk with women? No!: If you want to exchange notes on sports or talk of your drinking binges, your first date is the wrong place to do so. If you want to talk sports, and chicks then meet your buddies. Why are you on a date? Doing all this makes you look shallow and boring to women.
Also never refer to attractive women like you would in the presence of your male friends. So calling someone a “chick” or “babe” is out of the question. Do this and you shall never hear from your date again as she will find you not just shallow but very disrespectful as well.
o Give too much attention: Don’t go to the other extreme and give her so much attention that you make her feel suffocated and begin looking like a desperado. Agreeing to everything that she says, behaving like a puppy dog and running around like a man servant is not going to get you any brownie points.
This behavior is only going to make you look insecure, desperate and needy…a man who is so insecure that he will take any kind of treatment just so he has a girl to talk to. Women don’t stay with men they can’t respect and this is no way of earning a woman’s respect.
o Check her out and then other women: The moment you begin checking out other women while you are on a date you can say your date is over. It won’t be long before your date comes up with some excuse and leaves.
This behavior is totally unacceptable as you are not just disrespecting her but are also making her feel that you would much rather be looking at other women than look at her! Also men who start by checking out a woman’s assets are the ones who are dating disasters.
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