Relationship Tips

My take is that who you are is your car, and how good you are at dating is how good you drive.

You could come in first in a bad car, if you were the best driver in the world.

You could also come in first if you were the worst driver in the world, in the best car in the world.

But one thing is sure – you would come in first if you had the best car in the world, and was the best driver in the world.

My point is that you should both learn about attraction, become as smooth as James Bond, and learn that super fancy opener that will make her attracted to you right from the beginning, but you should also go work on yourself – upgrade yourself.

If you became the best version of yourself in every possible way – the woman or man of your dreams would probably come to you.

The areas of which you should improve are:

- Your physical appearance (you may not be Brad Pitt, but buy some nice clothing, take care of your grooming and work out)

- Your economy (it’s a fact – life is easier when you have your economy handled. Give your best at work and get that raise, start your own company, get out of debt or start spending with your brain turned on)

- Your education (we all like educated people – as long as their education is used in a sexy, interesting and good way)

- Your personal development (self-confidence, self-esteem, inner peace)

- Family (you should love your mother)

- Relationships (how good are you at being in a relationship)

- Sex (how good are you in bed?)

- Career/work (do you do what you love every day?)

- Spare time (do you have fascinating hobbies, or do you chill on the couch with a pizza every day?)

Try to rate yourself on 1-10 on all of the areas.

Where could you improve?

If you could honestly say 10 in all of them, you would be able to point at every man or woman as your new significant other. That’s for sure.

By Jonas Cronfeld