Relationship Tips

Most people assume Think and Grow Rich, the best-selling book by Napoleon Hill, is purely a program for financial freedom. But as Hill clearly states, true success involves much more than just financial success. Successful relationships are important in many areas including:

Personal relationships that give you the support and encouragement to achieve your burning desire

Working relationships that allow you to get maximum benefit out of the Master Mind group principle

Business relationships that enable you to succeed without sacrificing your ethics and morals

Before you start building a relationship with a potential friend, colleague or lover, you need to build one with yourself. Many people spend little or no time getting to know themselves and what makes them ‘tick’. But if you don’t know yourself how can you know the sort of people you will get on with? Finding out about yourself — practicing introspection — can be uncomfortable, which is why so many of us prefer not to delve too deeply into this area. You may find things you don’t like. Chances are that if you don’t like some aspects of your personality, attitudes or habits, neither will others.

The most successful relationships are between people who have common interests, values or beliefs. It would make life easier if we came with a list of these attached for anyone to read, like the ingredients on a packet of soup. Then it would just be a question of finding someone with the same set of ingredients, knowing this would lead to compatibility. The way we identify potential compatibility is by asking questions. Asking questions has two purposes. The obvious one is as a method of gathering information. Questioning is also a way of showing interest, of making the other person feel valued. And this usually produces a positive response.

For someone who lacks self esteem asking or answering questions can feel very intimidating at first. These aren’t difficult questions though — they’re about you so you do know the answers. And if you’re asking the questions it’s not difficult either. ‘Tell me more about…’ is often all that’s needed. Looking at the other person, nodding and smiling occasionally also help to show them that you value what they are saying. A few open questions can easily be the start of a lasting relationship.

It is never wise to try to be something you’re not, especially when you want to build strong relationships. Start off with untruths and you’ll spend all your time trying to remember what you said and living up to your fabrications. Unless you’re extremely lucky you will get found out, and your deception could destroy what might have been a great friendship. If there are aspects of yourself you don’t like, work to change them so you can form relationships based on honesty.

Strong relationships can weather good times and bad. It’s okay to have disagreements with friends, colleagues or lovers; in fact it’s unlikely you’ll agree on things all the time. Don’t let disagreements get out of hand though, or the relationship could suffer. Don’t ‘take your ball home’ — that’s what children do. Take responsibility for the relationship as an adult and discuss the problems so you can overcome them. If it doesn’t seem likely that you can resolve the situation you can agree to differ. But you must then ensure that you don’t keep bringing the subject up or you’ll drive a wedge between you.

Secure and successful relationships can be formed by anyone who is willing to work at them.

By Maggi Birtles

Online dating software has made it more easy to create an online dating sites. Online dating sites are one of the most used sites all over the world and people from different ages, caste and geographical regions get involved in any of the sites for dating online. Why do you want to meet people online? Here are 10 reasons:

1. Meet people from around the world – Instead of just dating within your normal ‘comfort zone’. Or in your same area. You now have the option to meet, flirt, and date someone from another country if you desire a long distance relationship.

2. Similar interests – With online dating sites you can find people that enjoy your same hobbies and interests. No more roaming the earth lost and alone, here you can find someone to really talk to.

3. Less time – Instead of wasting your time on an awkward date with someone you barely know, you can get to know them through a personal profile or chat option.

4. Less money – Instead of wasting your money on movies and dinner with someone you have nothing in common with, an online networking or friend making site will find another person with your similar interests so the dates actually count and the money is worth spending this time around.

5. Chemistry – Now you can chat before the first date. This will make the overall experience easier, and you feel like you’ve known each other before

6. Less anxiety – Dating is often a very stressful endeavor. Especially for someone that hasn’t had the opportunity in awhile. With online sites for daring, they might feel more comfortable about putting themselves out there again.

7. No time constraint – There is no rush to finding ‘love’ again. You can search your online dating site whenever you want or whenever you are comfortable. No due dates here.

8. One stop search- online dating sites do the looking for you. All you have to do is sit back, relax, and pick and choose for yourself.

9. Simultaneous dating- The online dating sites are booming with the help of online dating softwares and with this tool instead of making someone else jealous, you have the option to date/chat with more than one person without the other party having knowledge of it. The dating world is your oyster.

10. Level playing field – Here, everyone is in the same boat. Looking for someone else. You never know who you might find.

By George Szifo

Velocity dating happens when folks go to a speed relationship place searching for somebody who could be a superb match for them. This includes a very quick assembly with many different folks and also you see if there’s somebody there who you is perhaps appropriate with.

Pace courting is when many men and women sit at tables. A woman and a person will sit at each table for a specified interval of time. It may be two minutes or ten minutes depending on the pace relationship place you’re at.

During this period of time, the two will ask every other questions and get to know just a little about each other. They have the opportunity to rapidly get a run down on every person and determine if they’re someone they may be concerned about getting to know just a little higher after.

When the time is up then the women or the men will move to the subsequent table and discuss to a different person.

After each of the couples have met and spoke to every other they’ll give the numbers of the people or say which people they are interested in. If both folks show an curiosity then they’ve the chance to communicate and exit together.

During the velocity courting course of while couples are at the desk they might exchange information with each other additionally, in the event that they hit it off proper away.

Velocity dating is not for everybody but some individuals actually like meeting new individuals and finding a date this way. Many individuals like this method as a result of they get to meet the people in particular person and discuss with them moderately than on-line or by happening a blind date.

It is mentioned that if there’s chemistry between the 2 folks then it’s instantly recognized during a pace dating session.

By Maya Safana

Do you get nervous on a first date? We all do. The more you like the woman, the more nervous you are.

We tell guys on our radio show all the time that the best way to get over nervousness is control. Self-control, that is.

Have you ever been on a date with a woman that you were not that interested in? Remember how you felt then? You were cool as a cucumber, right? You were cool because you did not care if you ever saw her again.

You have to figure out a way to invoke those kind of feelings in yourself with a woman that you are REALLY interested in.

Here are some more helpful tips on how not to be nervous on a first date.

1. Remember that no matter how much you are attracted to her, she is a STRANGER. She might have “the look” as a late eighties song stated, but that is all you know about her now.

2. Dovetailing on tip 1, that she is in fact a stranger, you do not know what kind of girl you have. Could she be the flexible, nice, giving, highly interested woman with integrity that you seek? Sure. She can just as easily be a structured, hardheaded, mercenary as well. The point is, you just do not know so do not get overly nervous thinking you have finally met the “right one.”

3. Even if you have met “the right one” it is still going to take TIME to get to know her. Some guys want to have the ring on her finger just after the appetizer arrives. Remember, it takes approximately 10 dates or 2 months for you to seriously consider her to be your girlfriend and it takes another 2 years to see if you want her to be your wife (after she is your girlfriend). During that whole time we are watching to see if we have that flexible, nice, giving, highly interested woman with integrity.

Bottom line? Guys a lot of times put way too much into a first date. A first date has the sole objective of getting a second date and that is only if the lady laughs at our jokes, pays attention to you, lightly touches you at least 1 time during the date and acts interested in you.

Remember guys, dating is a process and many times that “process” leads to a dead end. Relax, have a good time and keep in mind that she is likely just as nervous as you are on a first date.

By Jeff M. Stevens

We want you to enjoy dating, connect with some wonderful ladies, and find your life partner. Below you will find some dating tips to help you put your best foot first, make a great impression, be comfortable, and have a great time dating.

1. Look Your Best. Take a shower, shave, and wear a freshly ironed shirt. You don’t have to be a super stud, but women will notice when you take the time to smooth over the rough edges. Paying attention to your grooming, your clothes and your overall appearance will score you points for sure. Showing up looking less than polished does not make you look casual and cool, it really makes you look sloppy – not a good thing for that important first impression. Please trim your finger nails and your nose hair.

2. Be Honest. You may be tempted to embellish the truth to make you sound more interesting, but don’t do it. If you end up hitting it off, and you have additional dates, it will be very difficult to keep your story straight. This will be very embarrassing if you can’t remember the details. Add to that the fact that it is probably pretty obvious when you do embellish, and that is just a big turn off. Be proud of who you are and don’t feel the need to compete or outshine your own self with a made up persona.

3. Shine a Light on Your Sense of Humor. Great laughter, gentle intimate giggles, and a shared fun time, are the best parts of early dating. When you connect with someone through your sense of humor, you can really make a connection with them. It can also ease everyone’s nervousness. Just make sure your humor is not hurtful to others, even making fun of people you encounter – like the waiter – can be a real turn off. Laughter can also be something that is very memorable about your date. She will remember the great fun you had as you shared many laughs and warm hearted conversations.

4. Be Authentic, Be Yourself. Simply put; don’t try to be someone you’re not. You will be more comfortable when you are being yourself. And, the best news of all – your new relationship will be much more successful when you are dating someone who loves you for who you are. You don’t want to try to maintain a facade or made up persona of someone you’re not.

5. Maintain a Little Mystery. Yes, it’s best to be honest, but it is also beneficial if you maintain a little bit of mystery. Don’t tell your date everything about you, and don’t be available all the time. Keep your individual life and your freedom a little bit intact. You will be more attractive to women, if you have interests and activities of your own. Be nice, be considerate, but also be a little bit of a surprise – you don’t have to be a completely open book on the first date to keep their interest. In fact, it’s best if you are not.

6. Enjoy Dating. And finally, remember to have fun. This is what it’s about after all. Relax and don’t stress about asking women out, going on dates and finding out who you like. Don’t worry about being perfect, don’t over analyze everything you do and say. If you are not having a good time, your date will know it and she will also probably not have a good time. It may be your first and last date if she doesn’t enjoy your company, and if you are stressed, you may not be good company. Probably the best advice to help you enjoy dating is this… don’t put too much pressure on yourself.