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Sep

Best Ways To Approach A Girl Of Your Dreams

Related entries: Body Language, Dating Tips, Make Love, My Love, online dating, women Tags:"Love and Romance, Beautiful girl, Best Relationship tips

Love and Romance, Best Relationship tips, Beautiful girl

Every man on the planet should know how to approach women or girls. If you don’t, you are missing out on the first step for finding the girl of your dreams and maybe your mate for life. The way you approach a girl can make or break the your chances of having a date or simply just buying her a drink. Hopefully I’ll give you an idea or two on how to approach that certain someone special. I’ve had 20+ years on the dating scene, not to mention a great marriage to a beautiful woman. Yes we are still married after 19 years.

I’m no Romeo or Brad Pitt or what ever, but I know how to play the game. And it is a game. I’ve seen guys fail and succeed. It all comes down to the way the game is played. And if you get married and have kids you still have to play the game. It’s kinda like working out with weights, when you stop….the results stop! Same thing. I am convinced that is why 80 percent of marriages fail, the game stops. My game stopped after 6 years of marriage and divorced was filed at the big number 7. I did get back in before it was final and never looked back. I got back into the game.

Enough of that, let’s see how to approach a woman and/or girl -

Ok, Girls are used to getting approached, fact. Picture every other guy in the bar “If that’s the case” as white horses” You have to become the one and only black horse in the crowd. You must stand out. I’ve had 10 times more luck in “Bars” if I did not drink alcohol. I would drink water and chew gum. Sounds kinda dumb, but it put me in the right mind set. Give it a try.

Here’s a few short tips on approaching women. Remember guys, they’re not monsters…they won’t hurt you. “Well some will!”

First - Be confident when you approach them. But not too cocky! They can sense fear.

Second - Try to make good eye contact, but don’t stare them down. (And their Blouse is not their eyes!))

Third – Smile. Girls can’t resist a great smile and it gives off positive energy. If you don’t have a great smile, smile with your mouth shut, but smile- A lot.

Approaching women is not hard when you know what to do.

Jun

How To Get a Beautiful Girl

Related entries: Body Language, Dating Tips Tags:girlfriend, guys, Pretty girls

You want to have a beautiful girlfriend. You want other guys to look at you and your girl when you are out together and get jealous of you. You want to stare into the eyes of a pretty girl and see her staring back at you!

CAN YOU REALLY ATTRACT A PRETTY GIRL?

The answer should be a resounding, YES! Many guys do attract pretty girls and many of these guys are not the best looking or the riches or whatever else you might think you have to be in order to attract this kind of girl. In fact, sometimes a pretty girl is even easier to attract.

Why?

Because they are used to being hit on in the same way. They are used to hearing the same lines and dealing with same types of guys over and over and over. Just like anyone else, pretty girls are going to be attracted to a person who stands out. To a guy who goes outside the box and does his own thing.

Your individuality is what will separate you from the many generic kinds of guys out there. Using your personality and letting her see a confident side of you will instantly make you more and more attractive. Couple that with a care free, not ashamed to be yourself attitude and you WILL stand out.

Attracting a beautiful girl is not the hardest thing to do. Learn how to use the laws of attraction and build your confidence and you soon may be staring in the eyes of a pretty girl who is staring right back at YOU!

Further Reading

10 Things Not To Say On The First Date

How To Find Love Using Free Online Dating Sites

Ladies Know When To Get Out

3 Most Common Mistakes Guys Make That Creeps Girls Out

Jan

How To Tell if Your Man is Cheating on You!

Related entries: Adult dating, Body Language, Cheating, Dating Tips Tags:Cheating, lying, man

Your female intuition is telling you that your man might be cheating on you, here are some tips to help you find out if he really is!

First how to tell if he’s lying:
Ask him a direct yes/no question.
If he says ‘NO’ and there is a slight nod of the head (rather than a shake from L to R) he’s most likely lying. Similarly if he says ‘YES’ and shakes his head from side to side rather than nodding again lying. These head gestures are more indicative of the truth than the actual words. So look for a nod or a shake rather than a Yes or a No!

What happens when you accuse him of cheating?
Quite often when a man is a cheat and you confront him, his reaction will be completely over the top. He may accuse you or being completely insane and having a dirty mind. The reasonning behind this is to make YOU feel guilty for raising this issue and fearful of doing so again, and of course to make you doubt yourself.
Evidence of cheating
Have you checked his/your joint phone records- are there are long,recurrent calls?

Look at receipts, are there any unusual lunches/dinners he never mentioned to you? Or worse jewellery gift receipts and it’s not your birthday for another 6 months!
When the phone rings, does he take it into the other room, even when there is no noise disturbance where you are?
Is he taking more interest in changing his underwear? Perhaps changing before he goes out and altering his habits regarding his appearance and hygeine. Is he coming home later than usual, does he smell of women’s perfume?

Is the other woman someone you know?
Is your best friend round a lot more lately when he’s home and less when he’s not?

Does your husband insist on giving her a lift home, and the journey takes longer than it should?
What is their body language like when they are together, fleeing glances, slight touches.
How does your friend react when you openly display affection to your husband? Does she look aggravated, does she make an excuse to get you to stop?

Does she seem annoyed with your husband?

These are just a few of the possible ways to tell if your man is cheating but the list goes on and on. Of course him following this pattern is no guarantee he is cheating either.