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July 25, 2009

5 Love Tips For New Lovers: Making Love With My New Boyfriend or Girlfriend.

Posted by: Parker Chuks : Category: Dating

Deciding to make or not to make love together is a very personal and important decision in a new relationship. Do what you like, but here is what I know- fools rush in! Many people feel social pressures of “Sex in the City” types of relationships. That’s TV. This is your life! First, you must decide if you are looking for a long-term relationship, or a short-term relationship. That can guide your sexual decisions and actions. In the meantime, here are five love tips for you to review. I hope they will help you.

Love Tip 1: Men don’t respect women who are too sexually available too soon. Women don’t like men who are too pushy.

No matter what your date might say, men are taught to think poorly of women who have sex with them too soon. Women do not like to be pressured, and most men don’t either.

Love Tip 2: Take your time and enjoy the ride!

There are so many fun things you can do- kissing, fooling around with your clothes on, etc. Enjoy the buildup! Dating is a process of getting to know each other. Ask yourself if the chemistry is there, if you enjoy one another’s company, if this is a person that you enjoy on many levels. The more compatible you are, the better the sex is likely to be. After all, anticipation is half the fun!

Love Tip 3: Be safe, be sure and be healthy!

It is important that you and your partner get health tested for STDs first. This protects you and them more. Still use condoms and precautions because you never know. If you feel too embarrassed to talk about STDs or safer sex, then maybe it’s too soon to be naked with the other person sharing the most intimate moments. Muster up the courage to have an open conversation about safer sex and testing. Safe sex gives you peace of mind and body.

Love Tip 4: I would say never have sex on the first date. This is a bad idea because of love tip #1. Ideally, I recommend waiting at least a month or two before having intercourse. Some may not like this or think it’s stupid, but think about it- when you have sex with someone it can be so powerful. Do you want to fall in love with Mr. or Ms. Right or Wrong? You need to consider if you are emotionally ready to take that next step.

Love Tip 5: If all you are looking for is a one night stand, then go for the sex right away. Just be careful and have the safest sex you can. Have fun- there’s no judgment here!

If the person that you are looking for is any good for you, they will respect you enough to wait for you to be ready physically and emotionally. There is an emotional component to sexuality and sensuality that can either bring us so close together in bliss or leave us heartbroken. Since there are no hard and fast rules about sex, you will need to create your own. Stick to them and you will be glad that you did!

6 Things That Will Make Her To Make Love To You

Posted by: Parker Chuks : Category: Dating

1. Kiss her hand or grab her palm to “read” it. By doing this you quickly familiarize her with your touch. Once she becomes comfortable with you holding her hands, tell her that you want to massage her palm in order to relax her. Before you start, tell her to close her eyes and imagine that she is in an exotic island with you. When you have massaged her hands for a few minutes, tell her that you are going to kiss her forehead and her chicks. Chances are, she will tell you to go ahead. Once she lets you kiss her cheeks, chances are she will let you kiss her on the lips, but don’t go that far yet.

2. Start telling her how wonderful you think she is. Tell her that her inner beauty glows and that she is just as beautiful on the outside. Let how know how sweet she smells. Smell her hair, run your hands through them and let her know that you think that whoever can have her is the luckiest man.

3. If you notice that she is responding well to your touching and kissing and complements, take a risk and kiss her neck, but now her lips yet. If she lets you kiss her neck, then kiss her back, and run your hands down her thighs, but don’t kiss her on the lips yet.

4. Place your hand on her breast and she if she moves your hand. If she does not move your hand, then gently caress them without putting your hands under her shirt. Keep caressing them until you notice that her nipples have hardened. But don’t kiss her yet.

5. Tell her that you really think that you are falling for her, and that you want to stop touching her before you get into trouble. Tell her that you do not make love to any woman unless you really are in love with them. At this point her goal will be to let you make love to her, because she wants to prove to herself that she can make you fall.

6. At this point, look into her eyes and tell her that you think you are falling in love with her. At this point give her a very juicy kiss on her lips. Give her your best kiss but don’t make love to her. After kissing she will become vulnerable and will want to make love to you, but if you want her to become desperate about making love to you, then don’t make love to her even if she wants to.

Once you do the opposite of what she knows what men will do she will value you so much more and feel that you are one in a million. When you refuse to make love to a woman especially when you make her feel that you are falling for her, you become irresistible to her, and she becomes desperate about making love to you.

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